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Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Give it a time........its worth reading

Trust

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".



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NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"

The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.



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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."


There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.



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R IGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.



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PERSONAL PERCEPTION


Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.


It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..



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BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

Monday, January 23, 2006

Exciting mathematical Puzzle

Long ago, a mathematician used to cheat people.

Once he borrowedRs.4000/- from a rich man.

After a few days, he borrowed Rs.2000/- from the same man.

Many days passed, the mathematician did not return themoney to the rich man.

The rich man went to the mathematician and asked to return the money.

But to his great surprise, the mathematician replied that there is noneed to pay the debt.

"See here, friend" said the mathematician " the sum of 4000 and 2000 is equal to zero,

so I do not have any balance to pay".

The rich man took the matter to the court.

When the judge came to know this, he was astonished .

He asked the mathematician to prove that sum of 4000 and 2000 is zero, and not 6000.

The Clever mathematician agreed.

He said:

let a == 4000, b == 2000 and c == 6000

a + b == c

Multiply both sides by a + b

(a + b) (a + b ) == c (a + b)

a*a + ab + ba + b*b == ca + cb

a*a + ab - ca == cb - b*b - ba

a( a + b -c) == -b(b + a - c)

so a == - b

a + b == 0

Hence 4000 + 2000 = 0............

Thursday, January 19, 2006

A good PUZZLE

A man wanted to enter an exclusive club but did not know the password that was required.

He waited by the door and listened.

A club member knocked on the door and the doorman said, "twelve."

The member replied, "six " and was let in.

A second member came to the door and the doorman said, "six."

The member replied, "three" and was let in.

The man thought he had heard enough and walked up to the door.

The doorman said ,"ten" and the man replied, "five."

But he was not let in.

What should have he said?

Come on guys, put on your thinking caps & get the solution


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Ans:- 3

The man had to reply the number of characters in the word the Doorman was asking.

He should have replied "Three" instead of "Five".

I bet u'll read the question again....

FACTS TO MAKE EVERY Indian PROUD

Q. Who is the GM of Hewlett Packard (hp) ?

A. Rajiv Gupta

Q. Who is the creator of Pentium chip (needs no introduction as 90% of the today's computers run on it)?

A. Vinod Dahm

Q. Who is the third richest man on the world?

A. According to the latest report on Fortune Magazine, it is Azim Premji, who is the CEO of Wipro Industries. The Sultan of Brunei is at 6 th position now.

Q. Who is the founder and creator of Hotmail (Hotmail is world's No.1 web based email program)?

A. Sabeer Bhatia

Q. Who is the president of AT & T-Bell Labs (AT & T-Bell Labs is the creator of program languages such as C, C++, Unix to name a few)?

A. Arun Netravalli

Q. Who is the new MTD (Microsoft Testing Director) of Windows 2000, responsible to iron out all initial problems?

A. Sanjay Tejwrika

Q. Who are the Chief Executives of CitiBank, Mckensey & Stanchart?

A. Victor Menezes, Rajat Gupta, and Rana Talwar.

Q. We Indians are the wealthiest among all ethnic groups in America , even faring better than the whites and the natives.

There are 3.22 millions of Indians in USA (1.5% of population).

YET, 38% of doctors in USA are Indians.

12% scientists in USA are Indians.

36% of NASA scientists are Indians.

34% of Microsoft employees are Indians.

28% of IBM employees are Indians.

17% of INTEL scientists are Indians.

13% of XEROX employees are! Indians.

Some of the following facts may be known to you. These facts were recently published in a

German magazine, which deals with WORLD HISTORY FACTS ABOUT INDIA .

1. India never invaded any country in her last 1000 years of history.

2. India invented the Number system. Zero was invented by Aryabhatta.

3. The world's first University was established in Takshila in 700BC. More than 10,500 students

from all over the world studied more than 60 subjects. The University of Nalanda built in the 4

th century BC was one of the greatest achievements of ancient India in the field of education.

4. According to the Forbes magazine, Sanskrit is the most suitable language for computer

software.

5. Ayurveda is the earliest school of medicine known to humans.

6. Although western media portray modern images of India as poverty striken and

underdeveloped through political corruption, India was once the richest empire on earth.

7. The art of navigation was born in the river Sindh 5000 years ago. The very word

"Navigation" is derived from the Sanskrit word NAVGATIH.

8. The value of pi was first calculated by Budhayana, and he explained the concept of what is

now known as the Pythagorean Theorem. British scholars have last year (1999) officially

published that Budhayan's works dates to the 6 th Century which is long before the European

mathematicians.

9. USA based IEEE has proved what has been a century-old suspicion amongst academics that the pioneer of wireless communication was Pr! ofessor Jagdeesh Bose and not Marconi.

10. The earliest reservoir and dam for irrigation was built in Saurashtra.

11. Chess was invented in India.

12. Sushruta is the father of surgery. 2600 years ago he and health scientists of his time conducted surgeries like cesareans, cataract, fractures and urinary stones. Usage of anaesthesia was well known in ancient India.

13. When many cultures in the world were only nomadic forest dwellers over 5000 years ago, Indians established Harappan culture in Sindhu Valley (Indus Valley Civilisation).

14. The place value system, the decimal system was developed in India in 100 BC.

Quotes about India.

We owe a lot to the Indians, who taught us how to count, without which no worthwhile scientific discovery could have been made.

- Albert Einstein.

India is the cradle of the human race, the birthplace of human speech, the mother of history, the grandmother of legend and the great grand mother of tradition.

- Mark Twain.

If there is one place on the face of earth where all dreams of living men have found a home from the very earliest days when man began the dream of existence, it is India.

- French scholar Romain Rolland.

India conquered and dominated China culturally for 20 centuries without ever having to send a single soldier across her border.

- Hu Shih (former Chinese ambassador to USA)

ALL OF THE ABOVE IS JUST THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG, THE LIST COULD BE ENDLESS. BUT, if we don't see even a glimpse of that great India in the India that we see today, it clearly means that we are not working up to our potential; and that if we do, we could once again be an evershining and inspiring country setting a bright path for rest of the world to follow.

I hope you enjoyed it and work towards the welfare of INDIA.

Say proudly, I AM AN INDIAN.

Thursday, January 05, 2006

The Rich and the Poor

If you look at the society you will notice that the Rich people get richer and the Poor people become poorer. The middle class is dancing in between these two.

Most of the Rich people were business men and their children’s may be looking not so talented at the beginning but they were getting the experiences from their parents. Also they are ready to take risks. They know the loop holes like how to do the things where to get and where to give.

Contrastingly Poor people they are trying in both ends to meet in their life. Very rarely less than five percent people only able to recover their life.

The Rich people were passing the experiences to their child. Here you should not misunderstood, that they are discussing with child like classroom manner. Its not like that the children were getting the experience by watching their parents activities how he is interacting with others and how he tackles a problematic situation.
These experiences were like copycat only.

The poor people themselves don’t know how to lead life. So their children they also normally will struggle. They are always reluctant to take risks.

The Rich people mindset and their thinking is to get more money and fame where as the poor people they satisfied with the accomplishments of their daily needs.

The rich people are believes in work but the poor people believes in fate.

Controversy on existense of GOD

Controversies are always revolving around the World. One of the most oldest as well as the mostly discussed of them is the existense of God.

Theist always believed in God. He will give you so many examples to prove his belief where as the Atheist always trust in science and he always raise questions about the myth.

Now we will some of the interesting battle between them.

Theist says "The Universe, all the planets, earth every thing is working in a systematic and organized manner. Every day sun rises in the east and sets in the west. These activities are not changing at all.It is not possible with out a power governing them".

Atheist says "OK. If it is the case, then Why can't you show the God to me"

Theist says "You cannot see everything in the world. For example air is available everywhere can you see it? But you agree air is existant. Like wise we are not able to see the God".

Atheist asks "You are telling that God is available everwhere then what is the reason behind visiting temples, churches and Mosques rather than some other place?"

Theist responds him "Air is available everywhere but when you inject it into the Bulloon it flys, when you inject it into tyres, you are able to move with your vehicle. So when you keep it somewhere the energy is cumulated like that in temples, churches and mosques the energy is accumulated. So people are making prayers in those places".

Now Theist asking Atheist “All the things those were made by men consist of the base things taken from nature. Can you give me any example of man made thing which was not taken from nature?”

Atheist has no answer for this question.

Now Atheist asking “If God exists then why none of us are able to see him?”

Theist replies “We don’t have spiritual awareness; once you will get it, you will be able to experience god’s presense. People have previously seen god but once you get the experience you will not be able to express the feeling to others. Since you will be astonished and you will not like the materialistic life you were previously lived. Those feelings cannot be explained. Some things in life You have experience it; for example you can say Sugar is sweet, but once the person has tasted it then only he know what is sweet. Like that this you will understand once you experience it.”